I, along with others, had the pleasure to work for Jim as a live-in-carer.  He was always interested in the welfare of those who worked for, or with, him.  Whether it was a delivery driver, or an electrician, Jim was deeply interested in them and enjoyed conversing about multiple topics. This attitude was projected to those around him via Jim's big smile, the way he leaned forward towards others when listening to them, with both hands on his walking stick (if he was standing). How he used to often catch my eye, as if to say, "coffee and biscuits...". Jim was always the consummate host, and took pride in his environment. 
Jim loved company and looked forward to visits from his family,
friends and acquaintances. Any opportunity to visit the past was a great source of joy. His intelligence and knowledge was often subtly demonstrated during these conversations. It used to make me smile because Jim did not consider himself an intelligent man, always comparing himself against others he had known. This was just one manifestation of another of his qualities, modesty. Most of all Jim was a good man, through and through. Being 'straight' as he would probably say, was important to him and he expected others to be the same. However, being as kind as he was, I never once heard him say a bad word against anyone. He was hardest on himself and often wished aloud he could do better.  He had regrets, as we all do, and at times he was filled with sadness at past choices and he lamented the loss of friends and the passing of time.  I can picture him now, sitting in his seat, next to the window, looking out at his garden.  He mourned the fact he could no longer get out to tend the beds himself. However, he enjoyed the view and watching the wildlife that periodically visited, especially the Muntjac deer.
Food was a great source of enjoyment for Jim. He loved his sauces
thick and his food plain but well seasoned. I will never forget how he took pleasure from many things. From reading his daily paper to watching aeroplanes take off and land. I will always remember driving Jim to Luton airport so he could watch the planes in person. He was so excited. He talked for hours how he and his late wife would come out with some deck chairs for the day and watch the planes landings and take-offs. I have hundreds of memories like these that will stay with me forever. 
I will miss Jim's wit, intelligence and kindness.  I learnt a
lot from the man. I have no doubt that I am not alone in that as I remember the smiles of others when they interacted with him.  While Jim was a gregarious soul, there is no doubt his family meant the most to him, he loved them so much.